Do you default into Can’t ?

My father would say “there’ s no such thing as can’ t … there is “difficult” and “shouldn’t”…  

Suggest not being in too much of a hurry to live in “can’t” – that can be self defeating.

I’ve been told many times that something “can’t be done” both personally and in work situations. Personally, the attitude of questioning “can’t” has worked well for me on many occasion. Obviously common sense has to prevail to know when it’s too difficult or that you shouldn’t.

In my view, the saying is about embracing determination, tenacity, resilience and flowing. This sometimes proved that “difficult at first” situations could actually be achieved (and, sometimes not)

However, I could be happy knowing that I mostly tried to do my best. Like Don Miguel Ruiz’s “Four Agreements” – one of the agreements is “always do your best”

[Photo credits Don Miguel Ruiz and Unsplash]
Repetition and brain plasticity can be a wonderful opportunity to experience things differently ?  Interesting YouTube   Tedx Brain Presentation (click) Joe Dispenza

 

Comparison is a thief of happiness …

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Can we accept ourselves without an incessant need to fix, or be better than others ? Any change can be driven by what serves our best interest and values.  Some tips:

Understand awareness and acceptance (see who you are now)

Learn to understand the power of thoughts and the mind

Grow to see things differently – (see who you want to be based on values)

With the right intention and practice, you can learn to experience more calmness, happiness and resilience – more often. Learn to respond in situations, rather than reacting !